Miss Navita and Mr Niranjan, the final year engineering students decided to marry on their own without getting the approval of either of their family members. They knew that the marriage would not get the approval of them.
A few of their friends witnessed that marriage. They continued their studies and completed Engineering. They both were in search for jobs thereafter. The real test of time had come during that crisis period where they both were desperately searching for job. All those qualities which they liked in each other before marriage were disliked by each other.
They had their first argument over credit card usage; They wanted to manage each other's money which eventually brought communication down and the noise more.
The heart of any happy married relationship basically lies in " How to Communicate?" with each other without hurting the ego of the partner. Some couple are gifted naturally, some can't do it.
The couple were about to leave each other. After a few counselling sessions the couple realized their communication style. It took 6 months to set right their married life. They themselves have confessed thus: "Had we known the communication style before our marriage, we would have been more happy".
Mr and Mrs Niranjan now recommend pre- marriage counselling to all their young friends before marriage.
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