Mrs Radha and Mr Raj were present in a counselling session, they are married for the past 15 years, with teen age children. no doubt they re-living under the same roof. they live in separate rooms, separate kitchen, separate dinging hall timings .This is an example of married divorce cases.Both the couple have differences but they are together for the sake of their children.
Mr Raj is in his 40 s woking in an MNC. he openly admits his weakness "I flirt with girls, because my father also was like this. please dont advise me on this.' i cannot change ill be like this"
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Mrs Raj recalled an incident started like this " 24 hrs you are with your lap top office work or on cell phone, On holiday i warned you not to take his cell phone. you promised and agreed to it, but what happened when i told you to take care of the 7 yrs old son in swimming pool, you saw him swimming and you are talking to your girl friend over cell phone".He was injured,you asked for first aid and talking over the phone, you did not even call me and tell. I dissocvered my son's injury "Is this taking care of your son. "You don t have time for your son, you have time for your girlfriends' when i tell something you say sorry'""Even if my son gets injured during swimming you would have told sorry, even if is met with accident my dead body goes you will tell sorry"
Mr Raj was like stone smiling to whatever his wife is telling, He doesn't share any single expression of feelings in his body. that may be his stress relieving mechanism.His wife has completely lost trust on him.
One of the guarantee reason for couples failure is behave "like the great wall of china' no expression responding like a rock to the other partners feeling
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